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Aww, your naivete is adorable. Don't ever change.
But seriously, tho, yeah, welcome to The New Age, as the commercial goes. For years and years now, most MMO forums have been a noisome, caustic cesspit of whiny kids, obnoxious jerks, complete jackholes and malignant trolls... punctuated by the occasional bright spot of a coherent thought every great once in a while.
If you're just returning the digital fold, you'll learn quickly enough how to ignore to chaff and zero in on the wheat -- if you have the patience for it, that is. Personally, I'd only found one MMO forum in the last decade worth immersing myself in very much (aside from checking on patch notes, etc), and this one certainly ain't it.
Well one thing I do find if someone actually uses the voice chat, is some young boy usually with a southern accent saying racist things and acting all ******ed(xbox btw). So it is pretty good when they dont talk.lol