So, OIO's Going. Thanks a Lot. Gals, Take Heed!

[Ghost Daze]

:S This is deep...

Now i know why i play solo and non convo

She will be back, am sure. If ppl get a kick out of cyber bullying, it just means they are cowards and desperate ppl IRL.

I protect myself by keeping low/silent profile in game. Its a safe way but also a lonely way :S

~Ghost Daze6~

[chrismeyer34]

What does that even mean? Her absolutely bright and cheery attitude? Her helpful advice and making others feel good? Your best bet would be to just shut your mouth and stop with the HORRIBLE excuses...

Ya I know im just as bad for being a **** back....but I cant help it, I have a weird obsession with seeing bullies/evil people get their just desserts...

it gets me off sexually....

hard actually...right now....



Yup, 100% agree.

I have ALWAYS stood up for this kinda crap in real life, more fights than I can count. Why the hell would I not in the forum?


"The only reason evil men exist, is when good men do nothing"

yep, i use to get bullied a lot when i was smaller cuz i was the quiet kid...when my dad had enough, he started teaching me what the seal instructors taught him during training...since then ive learned to stand up for people as well as not take anything from people who like to clump everyone together and start bashing them...i dont know what this guy had said to that girl, but it mustve been pretty bad for everyone in the forum to have a go at him

[Dandrielas]

yep, i use to get bullied a lot when i was smaller cuz i was the quiet kid...when my dad had enough, he started teaching me what the seal instructors taught him during training...since then ive learned to stand up for people as well as not take anything from people who like to clump everyone together and start bashing them...i dont know what this guy had said to that girl, but it mustve been pretty bad for everyone in the forum to have a go at him

I pmed you something.

[chrismeyer34]

:S This is deep...

Now i know why i play solo and non convo

She will be back, am sure. If ppl get a kick out of cyber bullying, it just means they are cowards and desperate ppl IRL.

I protect myself by keeping low/silent profile in game. Its a safe way but also a lonely way :S

~Ghost Daze6~

true, but those kinds of people shouldnt ruin a person gaming experience or even chat...i solo myself but sometimes its good to have people to chat with in game and on the forums lol and when guys act weird or perv-ish towards girls then it sucks *** for the rest of us guys that are just quirky and good-natured, im a real light hearted person who loves to cut up and kid around with people, i love girls and i definitely love girls that are gamers but im not gonna be rude or pervy to them maybe some harmless flirting lol, but nothing that would cause them to get upset or want to leave

[Obderiath]

I find it to naive to have to read a thread like this. No disrespect to any of the parties involved because I ain't got beef with no set, no crew or no flag so don't come at me like that.

I'm just sayin' that this thread probably should have been kept quiet or handled behind closed doors. Nobody likes dirty laundry aired out in public except R.Kelly.

Yet you read it anyway. Just because you don't understand the reason it was made public doesn't mean it wasn't done to serve a particular purpose.

[averagejoe]

Like I asked earlier. Why has this not been lock?

[Zabuza]

Like I asked earlier. Why has this not been lock?

Same reason you haven't been b&?

[Xero18999]

First, it's a shame. She's an absolute sweetheart. I've gotten to know her pretty damned well, and she is a genuinely high-quality human being.

Second, and here comes the main chunk, her personality is what lets me know that certain recent posters are full of horse****. Now, I rarely get bothered by you "internet folk". I just ignore it if someone makes a snyde comment about me, or make it a joke, but when someone makes one of our pals want to leave the forum alone, that's a bit disconcerting, especially knowing said poster of less-than-average intellect assaulted her character.

That this guy has no clue that he's in the morally dubious area of this situation is either bewildering or highly depressing, as it shows certain people have little to no grasp on societal norms and/or personal interactions.
Then, going further and trying to use a statement I made before knowing what was going on to make it look like "thangs is good" as if I wouldn't recognize it? Show's this Joe is too mentally weak to be underhanded the way he wanted to.

Point in summation: overweight (probably grotesquely so), perverted ******* who is in a relationship tries to be manipulative to save his own skin, after trying to get a great-natured gal to show him some skin, then continues to call her a ***** when he was the one trying to get some internet booty. Nice.

Guys, I know this is the internet, but let's show some discretion and a little class with our social interactions.

I support this as well, Some people however have no class. They meander their way through situation thinking nothing of their actions until there are consequences. People with no pro activity can make situations muddy. I hope that she returns though I know her not.

[Ryzaerian]

There's no discretion and little enough class in this post. In repeatedly attacking this person each of you act no better than he did.

I disagree. These attacks are a social consequence. The person in question behaved in an unacceptable way, and is now reaping what he's sown. This type of feedback may, in an ideal situation, prevent him from being a giant dooshbag (take that, filter!) in the future. This is very much how society works: when you're a jerk, people treat you accordingly. Otherwise, what motivation would there be to change?

[Ensu]

heres your post, by saying " each of you " you ARE claiming everyone on here including me, nuff said, maybe you shouldve reread your post

"In repeatedly attacking" qualifies the sentence. If you were not repeatedly attacking anyone, the sentence does not apply.

But if you insist on repeatedly attacking someone, by all means, attack me. You seem to be working up quite the sweat over it.

To Zabuza, asking someone for sexy pictures on the internet is not the issue, unless it is done in an aggressive and bullying manner. People share, or post for public consumption, sexy pictures all the time. Try r/gonewild. Or r/ladyboners. Or http://forums.defiance.com/showthrea...es-of-Defiance .

He said terrible things, she said terrible things, people here said terrible things. You attack him for attacking someone else, but make an effort to appear justified and righteous. But you're not. It's just revenge, and revenge is pointless. Attacking him doesn't make the forum a better place, ignoring him would.

Disclaimer: If you don't feel like the "you" I used doesn't accurately portray you, then it's not for you.

To Ryzaerian, that's also the reasoning used for stoning adulterers to death, burning heretics and dropping bombs on disruptive countries. All it does is give one group of people the license to be even bigger jerks in retaliation.